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Secret Garden Publishing - Kenneth Ray Stubbs
Kiss of Desire
A Guide to Oral Sex for Men and Women

by Kenneth Ray Stubbs, Ph.D.

Illustrated by
Kyle Spencer

Richard Stodart
David Thorpe
Erica Chappuis, Betty Dodson
Pablo Picasso, Rick van Genderen

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Secret Garden Publishing - Kenneth Ray Stubbs


“Fever when you kiss me.” “Sealed with a kiss.” “Smother [your lover] in chocolate syrup and boogie till the cows come home.” The kiss, as represented in our popular lyrics, is sensual, sexual, romantic, and passionate.

Our first date, our first love, our first sex are often sealed with a kiss deep in our memories. The lips, the tongue, the teeth, and the breath are integral facets of our most intimate moments.

Kiss of Desire is a guide into the sensual realm of oral sex and lovemaking over the entire body. The tastes, the smells, the touches, and the sounds are a part of an oral erotic art both primal and sophisticated, intensely serious yet spontaneously playful.

In these pages we find no statistics on what is “normal,“ “average,” or “natural.” This moment of pleasure is the only moment that ever has or ever will exist. Comparisons with our past and the statistical “others” tend to limit our imagination. Here we focus on passions, not percentages.

No one has all the appearances depicted in the images herein. The length of the tongue, the width of the penis, or the firmness of the breasts are never the essential elements in making love. The human spirit is. And this is why a wide variety of images accompany the guidelines and techniques. We soar highest with imagination and inspiration.

Kiss of Desire is an expanded, color edition of my earlier Clitoral Kiss book. The instructions for both men and women are based on my experiential seminars for couples as well as on my trainings for sex therapists and educators for almost two decades throughout North America and Europe.

This truly is a K.I.S.S. book: Keep It Short and Sweet—the instructions, that is; not the kisses. Exact visual representations of tongue movements, for example, are not easily shown. So most of the illustrations here are to inspire rather than to give specific instructions.

While the images usually depict male-female twosomes, the techniques are applicable for any sexual orientation and any combination of shape, color, size, and number of bodies. Consent is the main criterion for the who and the what in our sexual lives, regardless of social mores and words in law texts.

I invite you and your lover to share your minds, hearts, and bodies in a basic human expression: the desire to kiss; to pleasure another with lips, tongue, and teeth; to taste a lover’s nectars; and to burn in the fire of desire.

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